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nicky (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for lesbian readers in response to this story on 23/07/2014
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hi im 27 yrs girl
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(user currently living in UNITED STATES) posted for lesbian readers in response to this story on 20/07/2014 tagged with sexual orientation +5
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One more thought on this is that love is love and a beautiful thing when so real and so pure and genuine. That is what it's about love . Life is so short and love should be there if you really desire love if it is important to you in your life as it is to my life.
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(user currently living in UNITED STATES) posted for lesbian readers on 20/07/2014 tagged with sexual orientation +15
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I'm an American female and very much attracted to Shri Lanka woman. They are beautiful to me and I would love to find a woman age 45 for compaionship. I'm decent and treat woman good and take my time. I fell in love with my Professor from Shri Lanka but she will never know it.
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dil (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for lesbian readers on 15/07/2014 tagged with marriage / civil unions +0
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sri lankan girl
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HJayawardana (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for lesbian readers on 10/06/2014 +0
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Confronting to society is hard confronting to yourself is harder. I am a girl, well moreover a lesbian who is willing to commit to a stable relationship. hjayawardana93@gmail.com. Thank You.
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Danu (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for lesbian bisexual intersex straight readers on 01/06/2014
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hi I'm danu
i have bi friends, we like to get to know genuine couples and ladies
email us danu.weerapura.0013@gmail.com
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jayas (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for gay lesbian transgender bisexual intersex straight readers on 25/02/2014 tagged with marriage / civil unions +0
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Hi im jayas.i like guy sex.pls contect me jayas.aij@gmail.com
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Gayan (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for lesbian bisexual intersex straight readers on 03/02/2014 tagged with tourism, intersex, at the work place, health, sexual orientation +4
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kevinde (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for gay lesbian transgender bisexual intersex straight readers on 14/12/2013 +10
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i am kevin 29 nice bi guy like to meet bi couples and transgenders you can contact me on my email-massagelanka@yahoo.com
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kanchana (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for lesbian bisexual readers on 01/12/2013 tagged with at the work place +10
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mama kanchana,female,33 age.mama asai lankawe girl kenek andunaganna,kemati female aya reply karanna,kanchanango@yahoo.com
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bandara (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for gay lesbian transgender bisexual intersex straight readers on 30/08/2013 +25
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mata 50 yrs venawa.mama kamathiy gay transgender or cd kenek sathutu wenna hamuwenna.katawath karadaryak nowena widihata pirisidu awabodayen rahsigatha asurakata kamathiy mail karanna.(b.mudiyanselage@yahoo.com)
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Chalani (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for lesbian readers on 17/08/2013 +65
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Mama 28ka girl kenek. mama aasai girl kenek ekka sathutu wenna. viswasawantha vidihata adren sathutu wenna puluwan kenek hoya gannai me official site ekata awe. mama eththatama lassana, suduma sudu, shapema shape angak thiyena kenek. mama kemathi pirisidu, lassana, hitha honda, katawath waradak nowena vidihata, awabodayen, adaren sathutu wennapuluwan kenekuta. kamathi kenek awankawa Mail karanna. chalaniinoka@yahoo.com
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Ishan Perera (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for gay lesbian readers on 06/10/2011 tagged with lgbt families, health, sexual orientation +0
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Several years ago when I realized that I am a homosexual, I became very depressed, frustrated and dispirited. I tried to rationalize my sexuality in every possible way. I would look for Buddhist articles supporting homosexuality; I had a very profound knowledge of the biological, social, political factors favoring the existence of homosexuality. I hated Christianity for its homophobic views. I hated my parents for I know that they don’t like homosexuality. I hated everyone who was conservative and favored everybody with liberal norms. But at the meantime I looked on the www whether there are any treatments for homosexuality. The internet is bombarded with articles saying that homosexuality is biological and I came up with the youtube video made by APA saying that homosexuality is innate and reparative therapies are harmful.
But deep within I wished whether I can change. I did not like the way I behaved. I would have sex very often. I was addicted to pornography. I would browse the facebook for possible sex partners. I was obsessed with sex. I was failing my university exams. No appetite. No motivation. Just sex. I was so down that I went to meet a psychiatrist. I was given an anti-depressant. I told him that I am gay. He asked me whether I wanted to change. I said yes. He said the change is possible. I didn’t go to meet that doctor again because I instantly judged him as a stupid, conservative person. I thoroughly believed that homosexuality is biological and it cannot be changed.
My depression erupted again. I went to meet another psychiatrist who is very famous. He was so young and kind. He diagnosed me with social phobia and secondary depression arose due to homosexuality. I was referred to a psychologist who is very proficient in cognitive and behavioural therapies. She explained me the behaviour of homosexual thoughts and I luckily identified that homosexuality is the root cause for all these problems. It should be noted that both these professionals did not try to convert me. They clearly asked me whether I have a desire to change.
I have come out of the closet as a strong, independent, effective, and efficient and most importantly a happy heterosexual. I am less disturbed by sexual thoughts. I started seeing that there is something beyond flesh. I have a better concentration and found myself very good at meditating. I would for political reasons say that homosexuality is not a disease. But I would vehemently encourage homosexuals to become heterosexuals for their own betterment. There are very effective psychological help for homosexuals who want to change. Some will attain change instantly and some will take several years. It depends and worth a try than being a slave to your own emotions. The heterosexual potential is within you. But unfortunately some so called activists and organizations keep misleading the homosexuals that sexual orientation cannot be change since they are born that way. This is very destructive and selfish. Organizations and activists must respect the homosexual’s right to change and they should be helped to realize their ambitions.
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Ishan Perera (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for gay lesbian transgender bisexual intersex readers on 06/10/2011 +0
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Several years ago when I realized that I am a homosexual, I became very depressed, frustrated and dispirited. I tried to rationalize my sexuality in every possible way. I would look for Buddhist articles supporting homosexuality; I had a very profound knowledge of the biological, social, political factors favoring the existence of homosexuality. I hated Christianity for its homophobic views. I hated my parents for I know that they don’t like homosexuality. I hated everyone who was conservative and favored everybody with liberal norms. But at the meantime I looked on the www whether there are any treatments for homosexuality. The internet is bombarded with articles saying that homosexuality is biological and I came up with the youtube video made by APA saying that homosexuality is innate and reparative therapies are harmful.
But deep within I wished whether I can change. I did not like the way I behaved. I would have sex very often. I was addicted to pornography. I would browse the facebook for possible sex partners. I was obsessed with sex. I was failing my university exams. No appetite. No motivation. Just sex. I was so down that I went to meet a psychiatrist. I was given an anti-depressant. I told him that I am gay. He asked me whether I wanted to change. I said yes. He said the change is possible. I didn’t go to meet that doctor again because I instantly judged him as a stupid, conservative person. I thoroughly believed that homosexuality is biological and it cannot be changed.
My depression erupted again. I went to meet another psychiatrist who is very famous. He was so young and kind. He diagnosed me with social phobia and secondary depression arose due to homosexuality. I was referred to a psychologist who is very proficient in cognitive and behavioural therapies. She explained me the behaviour of homosexual thoughts and I luckily identified that homosexuality is the root cause for all these problems. It should be noted that both these professionals did not try to convert me. They clearly asked me whether I have a desire to change.
I have come out of the closet as a strong, independent, effective, and efficient and most importantly a happy heterosexual. I am less disturbed by sexual thoughts. I started seeing that there is something beyond flesh. I have a better concentration and found myself very good at meditating. I would for political reasons say that homosexuality is not a disease. But I would vehemently encourage homosexuals to become heterosexuals for their own betterment. There are very effective psychological help for homosexuals who want to change. Some will attain change instantly and some will take several years. It depends and worth a try than being a slave to your own emotions. The heterosexual potential is within you. But unfortunately some so called activists and organizations keep misleading the homosexuals that sexual orientation cannot be change since they are born that way. This is very destructive and selfish. Organizations and activists must respect the homosexual’s right to change and they should be helped to realize their ambitions.
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Sanny (user currently living in SRI LANKA) posted for gay lesbian bisexual intersex readers on 22/04/2011 tagged with tourism, at the work place, teaching lgbt rights in schools, sexual orientation +3
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I Am a boy. but I like and I have a experience with girl, uncle, Aunt with sex... and now i like to joint with bisexual thing... but still i can't find a bi sexual persons... anyone like, pls send me a massage. I always like little, young, old women, uncle, couple... but that should be secrets... pls send me hurry.... I allready to done any sexual thing with them... but i dont like to act films.
my mail address is lwasanjaya@yahoo.com..... i am hope fully and waiting for you........
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