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Akudo O. (user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for lesbian readers on 21/08/2010 tagged with at the work place, hate crime and violence prevention, sexual orientation, illegality of female to female relationships +28
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I started work with my present organization in February 2007, i was their first employee and was placed on a very little salary because at that point the company had not started generating money. When we got our first contract, i worked weekends alone with the Managing Director, sometimes, when i close, i get called out again to work at night.

Later that Year, two tech guys that were so nice to me till date and a lady was employed under me, and then another two ladies, till we became 20 in the office. We worked amicably until the Managers started being intimate with the female employees. I didn't care because i always wear my engagement ring from my partner which they all guessed must be a man.

At a point, they started rumoring that my friends on Facebook are mostly girls and that i chat with only girls, i did not bother. When they talk about their boyfriends, i move away because i dont want anybody to want to hear my story.

The MD called me one evening after close of work that he wanted to visit my house. I lied that i was living with my sister, and there he promised to give me rent to move out of my sisters house so that he will be coming to eat our native soup in my house.

I kept hiding from him, until he shocked me with questions about my sexuality. I lied, (because of the rate of discrimination and stigmatization in my country)yet he demoted me and always make reference of me in meetings although without mentioning my name, yet everyone knows who he is always referring to.

Right now, i have been given a dress code, for only me and also warned that i should never be in contact with any female agent working under me and the most painful part is that the people i employed are now my bosses.

I have learnt a lot my self and i have vowed to embrace being an activist to make sure nobody ever experiences what i have. I working towards making my name while still here so that they will know that the stone that was rejected can become the chief corner stone.
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ADEYINKA CARTWAK (user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay lesbian bisexual readers on 05/05/2011 tagged with lgbt families, hate crime and violence prevention, human rights, laws and leadership , sexual orientation, illegality of male to male relationships +28
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On the 12th of jan 2011, a day before the PDP Primaries, PUNCH newspaper published an interview with the Gay Association of Nigeria {the interview was done on the 11th at a hotel in Abuja}. The interview in question, was done by some executive members of the Association but a whole lot of members turned up for support.... During the interview, Vikky labbele stated when he was asked who 'GAN' will support for primaries and said ALHAJI ATIKU. He said the association will support Atiku because he is father/businessman and an understanding person who they believe can make Nigeria better. He never said Atiku was gay. He further stated that GAN, like any other association has rights to declare support for who ever they want like its done in developed countries around the world. That said interview generated a lot of controversy and was believed to be cause of Atiku's downfall during the presidential primaries because he lost the primaries woefully. The issue at hand now is that Atiku loyalist have vowed to seek every member of GAN out dispose them....... As i write this report now, The SSS are on the tail of the members of GAN who are already on the run from Atiku's loyalist {the loyalist have murdered 2 members as at the 29th}. All the executive and most members of GAN are on the run for their lives.
The question now is that, How long will we keep running, What will happen to our jobs and houses since we are in no position to trust anybody? The said interview can be checked online on http://www.punchng.com/Archive.aspx?datex=01%2F12%2F2011 . This is an SOS call. On easter monday, three houses in three different locations belonging to some members was burnt down. How long do we have to endure this torture? Adeyinka is currently the project director for Gay Association of Nigeria and he is creator of 'Nigerian gay lesbian bisexual lovers and friends on facebook. https://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=154681804546033. Adeyinka can be reached on adeyinkacartwak@yahoo.com
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(user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay lesbian bisexual readers on 05/05/2011 tagged with human rights, sexual orientation, illegality of male to male relationships +20
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On the 12th of jan 2011, a day before the PDP Primaries, PUNCH newspaper published an interview with the Gay Association of Nigeria {the interview was done on the 11th at a hotel in Abuja}. The interview in question, was done by some executive members of the Association but a whole lot of members turned up for support.... During the interview, Vikky labbele stated when he was asked who 'GAN' will support for primaries and said ATIKU. He said the association will support Atiku because he is father/businessman and understanding person who they believe can make Nigeria better. He never said Atiku was gay. He further stated that GAN can like any other association has rights to declare support for who ever they want like its done in developed countries around the world. That said interview generated a lot of controversy and was believed to be cause of Atiku's downfall because he lost the primaries woefully. The issue at hand now is that Atiku loyalist have vowed to seek every member of GAN out dispose them....... As i write report now, The SSS are on the tail of the members who are already on the run from Atiku's loyalist {they have murdered 2 members as at the 29th}. All the executive and most members of GAN are on the run for their lives.
The question now is that, How long will we keep running, What will happen to our jobs and houses since we are in no position to trust anybody? The said interview can be checked online on http://www.punchng.com/Archive.aspx?datex=01%2F12%2F2011 . Thhis write up is written by Adeyinka Cartwak. Adeyinka is currently the project director for Gay Association of Nigeria and he is creator of 'Nigerian gay lesbian bisexual lovers and friends on facebook. https://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=154681804546033. Adeyinka can be reached on adeyinkacartwak@yahoo.com
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I was in Nigeria in Summer of 2009. I had a fantastic time there. The social life of lesbians was mostly visible in Abuja and Lagos. I was moving in circles of upper and middle class individuals so I cannot speak wider than this. The reactions I got from men were of a highly sexualized nature. Some of them found it arousing in the sense that they say lesbians as sexually adventurous and had high hopes for a threesome. This, I found offensive. Even more offensive was a discussion I had with a guy who told me of how he attended a party with many lesbians in Abuja. He was particularly hostile when he spoke of butch lesbians or girls who chose butch lesbians as sexual partners. He insinuated that he would support anyone who took the liberty of "correcting their sexual practices" i.e. rape or coerced sex.

Aside from that, I could not hold hands with my girlfriend in public or even dare to sneak a kiss but in the elitist clubs it was all well and good and no one batted an eyelid.
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Enoch Akhaine posted for readers on 22/04/2010 tagged with sexual orientation +10
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i am writing with deep fear and am psychologically disturbed for reasons that i will be persecuted in some sort such as to be subjected
to being openly punished and humiliated by my family relatives and feared that my cultural clan in Edo,Nigeria will make me insane because i am a bisexual. Since March, 2009 i have been a bisexual and i told a close relative about my current sexual position but he has accused me strongly on the phone and vowed with other family relatives in line with our culture that it is a taboo and i shall be subjected to curses and threatened i will be put to be insane for being a bisexual. Currently i fear returning home after i last visited in 2008 Christmas. I am a Masters student(writing my final thesis on gender representation)temporarily residing in the Turkish Republic of North Cyprus. I am Psychologically imbalanced and am on the verge of terminating my MA studies and fear that my residency here expires in September,2010.I am grip with fear to return home.I fear to be insane especially.
North Cyprus is politically an unrecognized country and not part of the EU competent countries where i may find refuge.I dont want to be a destitute here after my studies but I am scared and dread returning home. I am an Orphan and the only child of my Late parents. the end of me implies the end of my father's generation to come. I dont want to change my sexual position however.
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Adeola (user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay readers on 15/01/2014 tagged with at the work place, hate crime and violence prevention, human rights, laws and leadership , sexual orientation, religion, marriage / civil unions +10
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I think Nigeria as a country needs some education, Needs to understand .Freedom to expression
.Freedom to life
.Freedom to choose
and above all Nigeria needs to understand that there is more than Muslim and Christian as a religion, so if I decide to worship Hindu as a religion there will be a bill passed that will jail me for practicing what I wish...Wake up Nigeria
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abimbola (user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for lesbian readers on 09/09/2013 +10
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My story is a true life story that happened shortly after the anti gay bill in my country was passed. It occured in April 2012. A night of humiliation in the cold hands of law enforcement agents, a night never to be remembered, a night of fear and abuse. A very unfortunate night.My girlfriend and I had an argument a week before the night. She called me up earlier on that ill-fated night and insisted we drove out to a secluded place so that we could have some private discussions. We drove in separate cars to a recreational open spot. She parked her car, hopped into mine and we got talking.We talked, we argued and as expected settled our rift with a kiss. A deep long kiss that got us carried away until we heard a bang on the door that came with enough force to jerk the door open because as fate would have it, the car doors weren't centrally locked. Looking through the car windows I saw some uniformed and un-uniformed men, one of which had a rifle in his hands.All I can remember were the questions that came with a blinding slap. Questions inquiring to know what we were doing in the car, why we were alone in the car? Why a woman would be kissing another woman? Demanding to know what pleasure we derived in such act?  If we hadn't heard about the newly passed policy with a punishable offence of imprisonment without fine? (explain more about the policy here, as in the imprisonment without a fine is for what? I know but other readers may not know) My girlfriend was held by the unarmed police officer while I was brutally rough handled by the officer with the rifle as they forced us back into my car and ordered us to drive through to the mini police station situated about 200meters towards the main entrance of the recreation centre.As I drove I tried pleading with the officesongs let us off before we reached the station but the three policemen that got into the car with us insisted their boss had gone ahead of us and its only their boss that could set us free.When we arrived at the police station I parked and we all alighted. My girlfriend was immediately taken to be locked up in one of the holding cells, the cell was dark because there was no electricity as at the time of our arrival. I was asked to stand beside their boss to give an explanation of what I was busy doing in the car at the time we were apprehended.
All my explanations fell on deaf ears, however I was forced to write a statement. After this, the talk on how much I was willing to part with for our bail began accompanied by several jail threats.
All they wanted was money! Yet we had wasted so much of our time pleading and they had battered us in the process regardless of our sex. We were made to pay through our noses before we were released, badly beaten and battered, at around past midnight that fateful day.
As I write this today, my girlfriend is yet to overcome the trauma from that night and still panics each time we ride in the same car together.
The same difficulty you encounter coming out in the open is almost the same you go through in accepting your sexuality. It is one thing accepting your sexuality, it is another coming out and it is an entirely different ball game doing so in a community where being a lesbian has been passed into law as a punishable crime. 
But I often ask myself why this has to be so for LGBT?
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Charles A (user currently living in UNITED KINGDOM) posted for gay readers on 30/05/2013 +10
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Information just received states that Nigerian house of representative has passed a bill banning gay activities in the country with a maximum jail term of up to 14years in prison.
If this is signed into by the president,it will further make life miserable for some of us that believes in this as a way of life.
Who will come to our aid to rescue from this inhuman,most wicked law and most senseless law?

Charles
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Nigeria is a country with over 170 million people and shares boarders with the Republic of Benin,Cameroon and Niger. Nigeria is largely shared between 2 major religions which are the muslims that largely dominate the northern part and the christians in the western part though there were other religions but these are the 2 major conservative. I grew up in a country where homosexuality is totally frowned upon by the society, the government and the religion. Growing up as a child actually was fun not until when I openly came out with my sexuality to my family and that made the beginning of my journey into neglection, punishment and denial of some basic rights just because of my sexuality. This led to me being taken to a deliverance house with the hope of me being a better person but after four years this changed nothing about me till date. Few years later I ran into the hands of the corrupt Nigerian government cohorts [police} where I suffered several attacks and threats of been killed or jail term. My gay life has not been an interesting one from the age of thirteen till now that I am 24 coupled with the fact that I am gay man living with HIV.
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I was hoping to do a promotion with some of your members on it, I think it would educate the Christian community who are the main antagonist in all queer love stories and it would help Christian gays and lesbians to make a stand for their faith and their love . Lastly that it would help change the law in NIgeria.


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Olatunji (user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay readers on 28/08/2013 tagged with sexual orientation +5
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I'm a man, but sexually attracted to other men. I have been this way since like forever, I can't remember things being different.
I grew up with a very strict Christian background, where the mention of erotic love, sex, and relationships was taboo, and viewed as the most mortal of sins.
But I could not help my feelings. As early as 8 years old, I had a crush on a lot of men in my daily lives, but had no ways of expressing it.
I was very good in academics, and excelled at the top of my class throughout Primary, Secondary and University days. I became a Medical Doctor.
My secondary school days were very melancholic, because I strove to fight the "strange" fire within me....It was a very trying time, denying my feelings for handsome young men around....Numerous sessions of fasting and prayers, and a few sessions of deliverance prayers in churches....all to no avail.
I practically wished I could be "normal", but all my efforts yielded no results. By the time I was in 300 level in Medical School, I just about gave up on myself, and came to the conclusion that it was impossible to change who I am. I decided to live with it, and be the best I could be in life...
I began to question a lot of church doctrine, and these all hinged on the thought that: If God really wanted me not to be this way, He shouldn't have made me this way...
I had a few men in my lives over time, but I was deep in the closet. I still am. I am currently practicing Medicine in Nigeria, in a Federal Tertiary Institution. I live a "normal" life.
I am still unmarried, despite a lot of pressures from family, and I am resolved that I will not be enslaved into marriage with a woman, as it will be a recipe for disaster.
I meet men on internet sites, usually chatting and talking about general things first. Then, I tend to meet selected people in person, if I feel that the persona is right for me.
In my experience, quite a number of young Nigerian men have same-sex sexual intercourse. A majority of them are involved in this only for money, and that is a large majority. I have met quite a lot of these people. They cannot be counted as LGBT. Most Nigerians that are truly LGBT are in the closet, because of the stigma associated with it in Nigeria here. It is still seen as a SIN by the majority of people here.
If you read the Nigerian dailies, you will see a lot of stories about people who are accused of having sex with someone of the same sex, and it is usually attributed to ritual purposes or demonic possession.
I live my life in the closet as much as possible. I don't flaunt my sexuality. I have stopped going to church, though, it just doesn't seem right to me, since my life is not accepted.
I am looking forward to a Nigeria where people tolerate the sexuality of others, and respect other people's lives.
I am not asking for same sex unions or marriages, all I am asking for is that straight people should see gay people as people, not as less than animals...
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Olatunji (user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay readers in response to this story on 28/08/2013 tagged with sexual orientation +5
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Dear Ben,
I know what you think. I am Nigerian like you, and it is possible we both have similar cultural backgrounds....but I want you to realize that sexual orientation is not a sickness. Sexual orientation is an innate part of every human being. I am gay. I don't know why I am like that, but I cannot deny it as a part of me. I believe you are straight. I feel about men the same way you feel about women, and vice versa. It's not fun being part of a persecuted minority, and had I a choice in this matter, would probably not have made such a choice.
I have accepted my way of life and my sexuality. I don't understand heterosexual feelings, because I wonder what a man sees in a woman.... but I will not discriminate against anyone based on that. I will not see a heterosexual person as base or disgusting, I will see them as a person...and that is what matters most.
The ills of the society in which we live are many, Nigeria has a lot of endemic problems. We will be a greater nation, if we let aside such issues as divide us, and unite together to face our challenges head-on, regardless of ethnicity, race, sexuality, gender or religion.
I love you, Ben......just the way you are. Please, love me too, just the way I am!
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(user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay lesbian transgender bisexual readers on 16/02/2014 +5
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My name is Morgan, I'm from Australia, but i live and work in Nigeria as a safety officer with Grand Marine Oil and Gas. Outside my job I'm also a gay and lesbian right activist, i run an underground gay right advocacy organisation known as Nigeria Gays and Lesbians Right Defenders(NGLRD). Gays and lesbians in Nigeria are facing a lot of challenges ranging from discrimination, brutality, total rejection by family members, some are even lynched to death just because of their sexual preference, the last straw that broke the camels back was the signing of anti gay law by the Nigerian president. This law stipulates 14yrs imprisonment for any gay or lesbian couple or relationship. You can read more about the challenges being faced by gay and lesbian community in Nigeria on: http://m.digitaljournal.com/news/world/gay-men-dragged-from-homes-brutally-beaten-by-nigerian-mob/article/371008. Having seen all these challenges being faced by gay and lesbian community in Nigeria, i decided to take it upon my self to fight for their right. So many of them are languishing in prison cell because there is nobody out there who is ready to speak on there behalf. Everybody is afraid to speak, i spent years pretending to be what I'm not, for how long will this evil continue to thrive? i have been there voice, i have been paying for attorney for those in prison, i have lobbied, i have done the little i can to help these people who are dying not because the committed any crime but because they are exercising their freedom of choice. i want to use this medium to call on all lovers of human right, the gay and lesbian community all over the world to come to the rescue of these innocent citizens. Those who are ready to support us in this struggle can reach me through my email: aleinmorgan@gmail.com or https://m.facebook.com/morgan.alein.3?refid=17 . Freedom is all we ask for. We will continue to fight until victory is achieved.
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Joseph (user currently living in FRANCE) posted for gay readers on 26/09/2013 tagged with illegality of male to male relationships +5
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Being gay or practising homosexual living is so terrible in nigeria that people are pretending to be straight when they are actually gays.I am a typical example and my advice for any lgbt person going to visit Nigeria is this.Firstly do not show any affections with your partners in public and do not visit the northern part of nigeria.There are a lot of groups in nigeria now trying to break the draconal laws being implemented in nigeria and i happened to have being in one of them.My story occured in Bauchi state and as young men i had a partner who have been living together but problems started when extremist muslim vigilante groups who act as informers for the sharia court like the hisba group start to monitor people who seem to be same sex partners even if they are not.The next thing you get is usually a police warrant and the police authorities are so corrupt that they charge you to, the sharia instead of the federal government court making it very difficuilt for you to escape punishment.The advice for people is always ask for a lawyer who can stand witness for you so that you can get an initial freedom ,when you get it my advice is for you to flee because the police and the public now see you as a target for future beatings and attacks
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(user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for readers on 02/02/2014 +5
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My name is david am a gay of 22 yrs of age and am a Nigeria. i have lived in Nigeria happily all through my life as a gay wit my partner paul which I met wen I was 18, until two weeks ago when the anti gay law was passed with a sentence of 14 years in jail. We ve seperated ever since for d fear of being caught. Please I need your help, I need to be with paul cos I miss him a lot.thanks
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amdity (user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay transgender straight readers on 11/10/2012 +5
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Since i join online bgc website from London , so now that i have relocated back to Lagos now, i could see many friendship and relationship network in Lagos and every part of Nigeria to connect with me online and I love it, anyway, am a social care worker, i handle a lot of private intimacy contact and connection both male and female.that's all
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john (user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay readers on 15/12/2013 tagged with tourism +5
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Mr. Gay (user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay readers on 12/05/2013 +5
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ben (user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for straight readers on 13/08/2013 tagged with at the work place, health +4
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My personal opinion is that same sex affair is a health sickness that need medical research on ways to correct it. This is the fact no animal is no to pratice it. It is a simple logic.Rather promote it, i would suggest we direct our efforts on medical research on ways to address this cronic diseses and terrible disese.Thank you.
ben.
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Micheal (user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay readers on 22/12/2011 tagged with sexual orientation +4
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GAY life in Nigeria , i am a gay man and also HIV positive i have faced a lot of stigma because of my status as a gay man and also living with HIV , my family has disown me because they feel i have been coursed by god and am been punished by god, Avery day of my life i live in fear and pain because am not able to live the kind of life i will want to live , but one thing that brings me joy is the fact that even in the face of all this issues am able to change my community members lives (MSM)many of them now believe that HIV is real because they have seen some one who is infected,many who are infected now know the right things to do and get health care services they are now members of the support group which is for MSM alone , am also glad about the organization where i work because we provide services for MSM and also have a clinic specific for MSM alone where they get ARVs with out going out there to be stigmatized by health care workers . all this we have achieved in Nigeria even in face of all the stigma and laws against gay people in Nigeria
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(user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay lesbian readers on 13/12/2011 +3
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If you have been monitoring situations in Nigeria, you will understand that a bill originally designed to outlaw gay marriage is in the pipeline in the country. Gay sex stands the risk of being banned in Nigeria. Gays and lesbians face open discrimination and abuse in a country divided by Christians and Muslims who almost uniformly oppose homosexuality. In the areas in Nigeria's north where Islamic Shariah law has been enforced for about a decade, gays and lesbians can face death by stoning.
Under the proposed law to be passed by Senate, couples who marry could face up to 14 years each in prison. Witnesses or anyone who helps couples marry could be sentenced to 10 years behind bars. The bill also punishes the "public show of same-sex amorous relationships directly or indirectly'' with ten years in prison. A newly added portion of the bill, leveling 10 years in prison for those found guilty of organizing, operating or supporting gay clubs, organizations and meetings, worries advocates in Nigeria.
Efforts made by some international organizations seem to be falling on deaf ears. It is against this backdrop that the under listed people who are professionals and activists of various works of life in the different states of the federation wish to step up the fight against this bill which we have all described as an infringement on the fundamental human rights of the Nigerian citizen.
Under the auspices of Gay advocacy Nigeria, we intend to tackle the bill by secretly lobbying our various House of Representatives and members of the Senate in our various constituencies to frustrate the full passage of the bill. We are sure that our efforts will yield positive results since we have in the past influenced similar bills that were passed in our favour.
However, we are constrained by finance since this involves a huge consultation and lobbying. We therefore appeal to your organization to assist us with some finances that will facilitate our objective. It is our desire to keep this effort a top secret until the results start coming. We therefore hope that this letter will be given the utmost confidentiality it deserves. From time to time we shall be giving adequate report to your organization on the way forward and if need be, invite some of your members over where we shall introduce you to the various honourable members.
Believing that this letter will be treated with the urgency it requires. Looking forward to hearing from you soon.
Yours partners in the struggle;
Shaapera Donatus Terfa, Cordinator, Benue State
Ajayi yomi Ogun State
Osas Theophilus Edo State
Felicia Asui Delta State
Badmus Damkor Cross River State
Wugak Manji Plateau State
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Judith Akura Kogi State
Danladi Aminu Kano
Osagie Onus Akwa Ibom State
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Damilola Adekunle Oyo State
Chukwuma Chikelo Abia State
Tricia Anebi Osun State
Mustapha Abubakar Jigawa State
Dooshima Anyam Nasarawa State
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Mary doo Ukange Bauchi State
Aminu Biu Borno State
Chinasa Eze Anambra State
Ben Igboko Imo State
Patricia Alongu Lagos State
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(user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay readers on 17/03/2013 +0
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Am black single gay young man here in Nigeria and i want to use this opportunity to share my life story with you all and see if there is any assistance anyone can lender to me either than been this way i am since is not normal been single and lonely which i find too hard to believe in my life and also the community where i am living it.

I was born on Feb.14th 1983 from Family of (3boys,3girls) am the 3rd son and i grew up from eastern part of Nigeria as i am from Anambra state and throughout my life time i have been living a lonely life though inside me i knew exactly what i am and whom i am and i can say that i started meeting people when i enter secondary school though is not easy for me but still am the Shy type who does not speak much and what am trying to explain to you people out there is that am single and seriously searching for true a man for true love with anyone who need someone for life partner as am alone, single and based on the nature of Discrimination here in Nigeria and the Law filed by the Government i think is not wise for one to continue staying here and passing through this and i do not need to stay lonely all my life as am no getting younger anymore. I seriously need a man in my life , one who will be to me as friend and partner a man whom i can share my life with and live happily ever after with either than been lonely and single here all my life please if anyone have any suggestion please i am begging and i am serious please need a partner in my life . my email is larrycage1@yahoo.ca
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(user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for gay lesbian transgender bisexual intersex straight readers on 26/12/2011 +0
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Attn: sir/ma

we are a non governmental association in care for the gay and lesbian right in Nigeria. right now we are really going thru a lot of challenges via the band of gay and lesbian right in our country and this has result to so many killings of our brothers and sisters in the north side of the country..
right now we are hiding under the shadow of this association Doctor Uwa Foundation for the gay and lesbian but we can not come out openly bcus right now our life is not save.
we are writing you this mail so that u can use your able network to inform others what we have been facing in our country Nigeria and if you have any advise you can send to us pls we will really welcome it urgently.
pls you can reach our foundation thru this:

Doctor Uwa Foundation
for the gay and lesbian right
5,oyetola street,
mafoluku oshodi,
lagos, nigeria
west african
Tel:2348033924579

pls we will urgently be waiting for your respond and help
to enable us help our brothers and sister in the north side
of our country to enable us save there life..
we will send you some of the killings picture of some of our member
that was killed trying to run for there life.

pls your urgent respond is highly needed.

regards
Doctor Keven Uwa
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kareem fatai balogun (user currently living in NIGERIA) posted for readers on 31/05/2010 +0
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let me take it shortly and as nigeria one question before i take my story, if somebody work for some organasation and the company is making money and the jobs are risk and chairman of the company after many operation that he never collect the money of the jobs and the person bear it and still send them to another operation and the worker still complay with him now started used police treating them and he hold them ten months salary,
what can the person do, and the person is hysically challeng person, i need your advice
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mr bennad (user currently living in SWAZILAND) posted for readers on 31/03/2014 +0
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mr bennad (user currently living in ZAMBIA) posted for readers on 12/07/2014 +0
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Luchino ViscontiLuchino Visconti's film career sepnnad over four decades, making him a key force in 20th-century Italian cinema. However, it was in Paris that his career began when he befriended the fashion designer Coco Chanel, who introduced him to Jean Renoir. Visconti worked with Renoir on various film projects, one of which was the film Une Partie de Campagne (1936), as costume designer and assistant director. During this period, and contrary to his aristocratic upbringing, he became influenced by Marxist ideology, and these beliefs would later shape his own style of film-making.Visconti did not direct his first film until 1942, when he returned to Italy. Ossessione was based on the novel The Postman Always Rings Twice by James M Cain. Visconti's adaptation was unauthorised - which meant the film was rarely screened in the USA - and heavily censored by fascist officials of Mussolini's regime. Despite all its difficulties, it remained a success in Italy and is regarded as the first film of the Italian neo-realist movement.Visconti's political leanings were expressed in his second film La Terra Trema (The Earth Trembles) (1947), which tells the story of class exploitation in a small Sicilian fishing village. This theme continued with the 1960 film, Rocco e i Suoi Fratelli (Rocco and his Brothers).In his later work, Visconti seemed to move away from the neo-realist style towards more historical and literary themes. The battle between progress and nostalgia is constantly fought in this director's work, but towards the end of his career Visconti seemed to favour the latter with a definite air of scepticism about the value of progress.One such film was the cinematic epic Il Gattopardo (The Leopard) (1963), starring Burt Lancaster as the Prince of Salina. By arranging the marriage of Tancredi, his nephew, and Angelica, the daughter of a rich merchant, the Prince attempts to financially rescue and secure the future of his family by joining the old aristocracy with the new money of the bourgeoisie. This film's operatic style was a cross over from Visconti's theatre work.Visconti was openly gay, but few of his films dealt with the issue of male homosexuality. The most notable exception to this was the 1971 film Morte a Venezia (Death In Venice) from the novel by Thomas Mann. Dirk Bogarde plays the lead character, the reserved composer Gustav Aschenbach who, when confronted with the purity and beauty of a young boy, played by Bjorn Andresen, allows the secret passion within him, his homosexuality, to awaken.Visconti returns to the topic of the aristocracy in the melodrama L'Innocente (The Intruder) (1976). This was to be his final film. As a result of the strokes he suffered in 1972 and 1974, which left him completely paralysed, Visconti died at the age of 70 before editing was completed.During his life, Visconti had made over 20 films, many of which are considered cinematic masterpieces, directed plays by Arthur Miller and Tennessee Williams, and staged ballets and operas, such as La Vestale (1954) and La Sonnambula (1955), starring Maria Callas."Visconti's death marked the end of an era of Italian cinema" - Geoffrey Nowell-Smith http://vuxyfavhcwc.com [url=http://jdhrdyvfhd.com]jdhrdyvfhd[/url] [link=http://ylgulxdks.com]ylgulxdks[/link]
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Look, have you ever heard of sodom and gommorrah, some think the story is a fable. soon we would have sexual orientation for animals. Please, we should be scared the judgement of God has been reserved until now. Let us repent of this nonsense saying sexual orientation, some people have orientation to kill, that doesn’t make it right. A word is enough for the wise
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