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elizabet (user currently living in MEXICO) posted for lesbian readers on 30/12/2013 tagged with illegality of female to female relationships +5
Hola saludos hace dos meses que vine a vivir a ensenada mexico, yo siempre hice activismo para el beneficio de la comunidad LGBT y me doy cuenta que aqui en baja california norte la homofobia es muy fuerte, y me eh sentido mucho mas descriminada que hace 25 anos que fue cuando parti a estados unidos, me hace falta orienctacion para hacer un cambio en este estado gracias elizabeth
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(user currently living in MEXICO) posted for gay lesbian readers on 17/12/2013 tagged with teaching lgbt rights in schools
Actualmente vivo en el sureste de México, un lugar que ocupa el 2a. lugar en actos de discriminación en México. Sin embargo, compañeras lesbianas y gays, nos dimos a la tarea de ir a la Universidades públicas y privadas para consientizar a los estudiantes sobre la homofobia y la discriminación. El impacto durante un año de esfuerzo llegó hasta hace un mes, cuando muchas personas, en su mayoría heterosexuales se unieron para pedir al Congreso, que modifique el Código Civil del Estado de Chiapas, para dar lugar a la unión de personas, con el mismo nombre: Matrimonio. Aún hoy, seguimos llevando quejas de detenciones arbitrarias a gente de la población LGBTTI, de asesinatos por razones de preferencia sexual, sin embargo, hemos, poco a poco, construído una cultura de respeto hacia lo diverso. Les envío un fuerte abrazo a todas ustedes querido hermanos y hermanas.
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Richard (user currently living in MEXICO) posted for gay readers on 03/01/2013 tagged with hate crime and violence prevention
Hola a todos!, Mi nombre es Richard y bueno mi historia como homosexual en un país machista, es difícil... Siempre he sido rechazado, humillado, me han insultado en la calle.
Recuerdo una vez... salia con mi pareja a un lugar llamado Cuautla,Mor. Nuestras vestimentas no eran llamativas o "decían véanme soy gay", tratamos siempre ser precavidos... y solo recuerdo que un tipo en el autobús me lanzo una basura a la cabeza, he iba diciendo cosas insultantes, así que al bajarme del autobús, yo también lo insulte, habeces la violencia genera violencia.. Pero no debe de ser así, tengo 23 años y he sufrido mucho por ser gay, pero saben... ADORO SER GAY, J'adore être gai!
Por que después de todo, me mude a la ciudad y ahora vivo con mi pareja y soy feliz, aunque a la gente no le guste!
Tengo miedo a que me agredan y por eso soy precavido, alguna vez le dije a mi padre que no puedo vivir con temor, pero si con precaución.
Hola a todos mis hermanos y hermanas!!! Mi comunidad, Mi 2a familia, La esperanza de un mundo mejor nunca muere. RG!
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posted for readers on 14/10/2012 tagged with human rights, laws and leadership , sexual orientation, religion
hola acabo de tener un bebe... y ahora resulta que el padre no esta de acuerdo con que yo este con mi pareja... y todo porque el quiere estar y formar una familia con migo... mi madre esta en completo desacuerdo con que yo tenga una pareja mujer... a pesar de que fue ella la que estuvo con migo en el embarazo y el padre no... el padre dice que se quiere hacer cargo de mi y mi bebe... el problema es que hablo con mis padres y ahora se complico todo... mi familia espera que yo me case con el... mi padre ya no me apoya económicamente para mis estudios a pesar de que era para lo único que me daba dinero... y todo porque el padre de mi bebe les dijo que el se haría cargo de todo y ni siquiera da lo necesario para los gastos del bebe y ya tiene un mes que no se aparece solo llama para decir que vendrá a ver al bebe por no viene... y aun así quieren quitarme la custodia de mi bebe... por el momento ando buscando accesorias para ver de que formas me pueden quitar a mi bebe y que puedo hacer al respecto... SI ALGUIEN TIENE UN PROBLEMA ASÍ MEJOR BUSQUEN ACCESORIA Y AYUDA EN VEZ DE TIRAR LA TOALLA CON SU PAREJA...
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Lau (user currently living in MEXICO) posted for lesbian readers on 06/08/2012 tagged with sexual orientation, religion +10
Reading all those people suffering because of their sexual orientation in countries like Morocco, Uganda, etc. makes me sad; But it also makes me realize that my problems are nothing compared to them. I live in mexico. Recently they allowed, in mexico city (Federal District), marriage between gay couples and also adoption. Though is a big step in gay rights, the thing is that people still are not very fond of this idea yet. I live in a very religious family and even though i know my parents will never inflict any kind of physical abuse on me, if i were to come out, i know they'll give me their back. My parents laugh at gay people, judge gay people, and feel happy reading articles that justifies "gay behavior" as some psychological illness. I don't feel with the strength or courage to come out; i hope one day i can come out with someone by my side giving me strength.

Sorry if it was too long, just wanted to let it out.
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servando cardenas (user currently living in MEXICO) posted for gay lesbian transgender bisexual intersex straight readers on 21/03/2012 +5

My name is Servando Cardenas and i am writing to you because i would like your help. I've always accepted my homosexuality and i am proud of who i am. Unfortunately there is still alot of stereotypes about gay people like being promiscuous, having some kind of disease, or just judge us like we are not part of the society and keep us from having a regular life just like any other human being. i guess many consider us trash. Since i was small i knew who i was and my sexual orienation, and it was back then when i promised myself that i wanted to make a difference in all this stereotypes, i wanted to demonstrate everyone that we are also human beings, that we all want to have our own families and find someone to share our lives with. I completed my task guys and i found my true love and know that i have accomplished it, i want to have my gay wedding and make it public. I am currently living in Reynosa, Mexico and me and my boyfriend want to marry but unfortunately we dont have the means to make our wedding, we are asking you for your help guys, we are asking you to help us make the difference and demonstrate people that being gay is not a crime, that being gay is not what they think, that being gay is about a sexual orientaton but that at the end we all are just looking for the same as the heterosexuals our soulmates. We have attached some of our love story pictures guys hoping to hear from you, and see if you can help us any mean. Thank you for your time and hope to hear from you soon! chachodude@hotmail.com
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(user currently living in FRANCE) posted for intersex readers on 12/03/2012 tagged with intersex, gender identity, sexual orientation +5
Check out this fantastic documentary: Orchids: My Intersex Adventure

“Orchids” is directed by Phoebe Hart is one of the movies in the Official Selection of ÉCU - The European Independent Film Festival 2012.

Documentary filmmaker, Phoebe Hart, comes clean on her journey of self-discovery to embrace her future and reconcile the past shame and family secrecy surrounding her intersex condition. Despite her mother's outright refusal to be in the film, Phoebe decides she must push on with her quest to resolve her life story and connect with other intersex people on camera. With the help of her sister Bonnie and support from her husband James, she hits the open road and reflects on her youth.

Check out the trailer here:
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PRESS RELEASE 03/10/2011

Subject: The Red Universitaria de la Diversidad Sexual (University Network of Sexual Diversity of the University of Guadalajara, Mexico) promotes local manifestation in the local Congress in opposition to the popular initiative to "shield" the family. The demonstration will take place peacefully, giving its arguments and positions.

The Red Universitaria de la Diversidad Sexual of the University of Guadalajara, in the Mexican State of Jalisco, invites media, NGOs, human rights activists and the general public to rally against the citizen initiative promoted by the neoconservative organization "Mexicanos por la vida de todos" chaired paradoxically by a citizen minister of the Commission on Human Rights of Jalisco, Norma Edith Martinez Guzman.

We believe that such citizen initiatives contravene the general principles of law and the essence of the legal framework for the extension of civil liberties and human rights recognition. The proposed amendments to the Civil Code of Jalisco, far from ensuring the prevalence of a traditional family model, provide the basis for the law to exclude and inhibit the different expressions of human relations that exist today.

The Red Universitaria de la Diversidad Sexual will held that peaceful and orderly manifestation in the Legislative Palace during the presentation of the initiative to the local House of Congress at its regular meeting on Wednesday October 5 at 11:00 am. It will inform the development of the manifestation and the session in the accounts on Twitter @RedUdeG and in the Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/233889565232/

Contact: Karina Michel Velasco, President of the University Lesbian Collective
Twitter: @ karina_michel

Contact: Nahum Hernรกndez Gallegos, Public Relations of the Red
Twitter: @ NapsterX4
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William (user currently living in MEXICO) posted for gay readers on 04/07/2011 tagged with sexual orientation
hello.. i am a young man ...
i have been in love with older american man, he is good man, honest ... i love him so much...
my problem is i can not be happy with him.. because my family don´t know my orientation... if i tell them... they hate me... i am sad.. because i can not be happy with him... i am sad and crying !
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H (user currently living in MEXICO) posted for gay readers on 15/06/2011 tagged with human rights, laws and leadership , sexual orientation
I was 7 years in jail for a homicide that I dind't comit... I was implicated just for being Gay... my parter was killed in jail... At least I'm free absolved... there weren't any proves!
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posted for readers on 23/09/2010
hola somos de la organizacion Fortaleciendo la Diversidad A.C. DE SAN LUIS POTOSI trabajamos con Mujeres TRANGENERO, reconocieron nuestro trabajo ONUSIDA en el 2008, por el trabajo en justicia social y derechos humanos premio cinta roja..... tenemos una gran inquietud
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Majo (user currently living in MEXICO) posted for gay lesbian readers on 11/08/2010 tagged with teaching lgbt rights in schools +5
I'm 17 years old and I've been born and raised in Monterrey city one of the 3 biggest citys in mexico. Most of the people think that in the country gay people its not usually accepted, at least in my city we are, there are alot of asociations for GLBT comunity, one for almost any characteristic of ur own, youth, mother, discriminated, etc.

In every school i've been there have been seminaries and different kind of instructions about homosexuality there is some homophobic people but there are not as many an other places.
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Ken (user currently living in MEXICO) posted for gay readers on 27/03/2010 tagged with tourism +4
Baja California Mexico - When I first started visiting Mexico, I thought, oh... too Catholic... too Macho... too straight. And for the casual visitor, that is the image. Soon someone took me by the hand and opened my eyes! Long story short is that my first impression was wrong in so many ways.

It is significant I think that Mexico never went through the Victorian, Puritan, Calvinist eras as we in the Anglo-Saxon world. They don't have the same hang-ups we do about same mentoring relationships that include sex as many other parts of the world. It is not uncommon for a young Mexican man to have same-sex relations simply as a learning experience. Note that I say "Mexican man." As tolerant as I have found Mexicans to be... don't mess with their kids. That is one thing that will bring certain wrath. In some parts of Mexico having a gay son is prized.... because they know he will be there in their old age, while all the other sons get married and move away.

At first I was a part-time visitor in Mexico. Now I am a full-time resident and live pretty openly with my partner. I say "pretty openly" because while we respect other's boundaries and don't push the gay thing, they know, we live comfortably and participate publicly as a couple. "They" includes the Mexicans and the local foreign resident crowd.

Northern Baja is a great place for gay retired couples... there are many senior gays living here quietly. Sunny beaches with ocean front houses at a fraction of what it would cost 45 minutes north in the US. And if we really need to go home, it is a short ride to the border.

Being right in Tijuana, close to the border, is not so good for gringos, or anyone for that matter... but it is where the clubs are, and there are several fun and interesting gay bars, clubs, etc. and once you know your way around they are fun to visit. We go out... usually when friends visit... 3-4 times a year.

Because we can be open, we try to live as an example for younger Mexicans who may not have many male role models. We try to show them that being gay does not mean that one partner is the "man"
and the other is the "woman." We show them that living their lives normally as gay men is possible.

We have marched through the streets of Tijuana and Ensenada in Gay Pride celebrations. Interesting experience! We run a free yahoo group where we distribute information and try to build a little community. Mexicans are not big on "organization" so that is another area where we mentor. Check us out at: http://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/MexicoGay-BajaGay I can answer any questions there.

For anyone interested in learning how to brush up your spanish speaking skills, I recommend an immersion school in Cuernavaca, with a GLBT specific program. You can stay in GLBT homes, or GLBT friendly homes. The summer program includes an overnight in Mexico City, and participation in the Gay Pride march there... an amazing experience! www.CETLALIC.org.mx

Many will think "Mexico?" and frown. It's not for everyone. But for those who enjoy Latin culture and adventure, it can be a viable option, and very economical for those with inquisitive and open minds.
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Art (user currently living in MEXICO) posted for gay lesbian transgender bisexual intersex straight readers on 16/03/2010 tagged with adoption, lgbt families, hate crime and violence prevention, human rights +5
Famous Mexican singer, Paquita la del Barrio, states "I´d rather see a child die, than adopted bye a gay couple"
Watch in spanish http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WBW4eA8_Ngc&feature;=player_embedded#
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Aydee (user currently living in MEXICO) posted for lesbian readers on 03/02/2010 tagged with lgbt families, sexual orientation
I live here in Tijuana Mexico, used to live in EEUU California.
I am 22 years old and i live with my beautiful gf Lorena, we both live at my parents house, since we're kinda young to live by ourselves in here, Tijuana... but probably we'll do that sometime this year, we both are trying to go to school and we work at a call center for Customer Service. My life in here is kinda hard since Mexico stills very conservative about LGTB not accepted yet all the way, there are two cities where you can get married, but stills you need to be certain age and have certain things, not an easy thing, as many other countries, well religion is not in our part, they're versus us, since we're doing something that aint right and oh well... I believe here in Mexico we still far from being open minded BUT not far from being accepted.
Family is okay, they wont admit it all the way to everyone but stills they accepted since there's nothing else to do, they cant change me, they tried but failed, thinking this was something psychological fixable, but make my effort to keep up and seems it worked, my gf's family is very open minded and they they love me <3 Im glad, my mom likes lorena as well even thou she doesnt really shows, she's not very demonstrative.

Hope my life gets better with better life chances and choices, to stay with the person I love and i know i might b kinda young but trust me ive been through a lot with lore and I can tell I love her.
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(user currently living in NETHERLANDS) posted for gay readers on 06/01/2010 tagged with families /parenting, tourism +20
When we (male-male couple, plus two boys, whom we have been co-parenting since their birth - at that time they were in secondary school) visited México, we thought that arrangements in hotels might be more difficult than we had experienced in Europe on previous holidays. Two adult men, two boys, four different family names.
But probably because it was so obvious that we were a family, no-one ever asked any question. Thanks for non-discriminating hospitality, Mexicans!
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