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Kellsie (user currently living in PAPUA NEW GUINEA) posted for readers on 05/03/2014
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Taimi (user currently living in TANZANIA, UNITED REPUBLIC OF) posted for readers on 05/03/2014
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Roseanna (user currently living in KENYA) posted for readers on 05/03/2014 tagged with on
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Rayan (user currently living in GRENADA) posted for readers on 14/10/2013
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Nastya (user currently living in CAPE VERDE) posted for readers on 14/10/2013
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Mahmod (user currently living in AUSTRIA) posted for readers on 12/10/2013 tagged with on
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Pete (user currently living in UNITED ARAB EMIRATES) posted for readers on 12/10/2013
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Iris (user currently living in SUDAN) posted for readers on 11/10/2013
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Manuel (user currently living in LEBANON) posted for readers on 11/10/2013
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Krazi (user currently living in ALBANIA) posted for readers on 11/10/2013 tagged with on
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Bassel (user currently living in SAN MARINO) posted for readers on 10/10/2013
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Marcia (user currently living in TUNISIA) posted for readers on 10/10/2013 tagged with on
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Rahmi (user currently living in ZIMBABWE) posted for readers on 09/10/2013
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To all of Affirmation, even though I am not a cneurrt member of Affirmation I still do look at what the organization is and does. My hat is off to Joshua and his team for all of the hard work they put in this past year and Joshuas' activities prior to becomeing our leader. I agree that Affirmation should continue and continue to thrive. Maybe when I feel well enough I will rejoin and try to be of some help.My love to you all.Mike Miner
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Alicia (user currently living in AZERBAIJAN) posted for readers on 09/10/2013 tagged with on
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Thanks to ALL that have helped make some crsuoe corrections for Affirmation. It is still a relevant and NEEDED organization. When the internet and other what is now called social media became vogue, I recall many conversations with the leadership of Affirmation in the 1990 s. How the personal touch was needed then as it is now.Professionally, I praise Face and etc. for connecting people. In my practice, Community Counseling Center of Southern Utah, I see many that are frustrated, even blunted by the wave of making social media there ONLY source of connection. Human interaction is imperative! Example: try and replicate the feelings we had for those of us that attended the Kirtland Temple Devotional on Face book. It can not be done. I am anticipating a meaningful and enthusiastic conference in SLC in 2013. Chris, my partner of 20+ years I met at a Affirmation Chapter event in Las Vegas. Lets keep Affirmation moving forward with conferences, new and existing chapters, personal connections, friendships, newsletters, etc.Happy New Year!Kraig Stephens, LCSWChris Doss, LCSW
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Silver Kenny (user currently living in MALAYSIA) posted for gay readers on 06/09/2013 tagged with laws and leadership +5
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Hi all, wishing everyone have a pleasant day.
I was born in Malaysia and currently i'm engaging with an American guy.
Was wondering, if we would proceed same sex married in the future, am I eligible to married to him and stay in America without applying any visa or so on?
Appreciated your kind advise.

Warmest regards,

Silver Kenny
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chris (user currently living in MALAYSIA) posted for straight readers on 27/11/2012 tagged with laws and leadership
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Please check this article and summon the world wide pressure on such stupid remarks by the wife of the Prime Minister of Malaysia who blames HIV on Gay People.

I think that she s way wrong in accusing without content and furthermore judging anyone.

http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/wife-malaysian-pm-blames-hiv-gay-people261112
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Max (user currently living in MALAYSIA) posted for bisexual readers on 15/12/2011 tagged with human rights, religion +10
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I'm Max, another oppressed member of the LGBT society in my country.
Here at my country, strong religious movements of the Muslims make life unbearable for people like me. They will often try to corrupt the public and said 'Homosexuality is a sin. You will go to hell.' . They will justify what is right and wrong for them in accordance to their own beliefs. Although the morality police will only take action on the Muslims, the news that appeared on local newspaper served as a warning to other non-Muslims to un-gay ourselves. The Muslim religious gurus will go beyond the limits of their authority, and try to spread their anti-LGBT crusade to other non-Muslim religion and the people, which is odd when they should spend more time to stop their terrorist brothers from bombing buildings, rather than insulting  gay rights.

No end for woes, no hope for comforting days, when this vortex of unrest and discrimination will keep spinning and suck out all the will to live from the LGBT society in Malaysia. 
Democracy means no one gets left behind. But Malaysia is obviously rooting for 'selective democracy' because the government itself discriminate LGBT society.

But I will not back down, because being a bisexual man is not a mistake. I am equally functional like other people. I refused to let the Muslims saturate their anti-LGBT hatred into my mind because gay rights is human rights, ask United Nation. Take that, haters.
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LGBTI in Malaysia is not treated well. They have to face ridicule and are bullied. To make things worst, there are LGBTI who sexually harassed or raped younger straight people and trying to seduced other people to became LGBTI causing LGBTI to be shunned from the society even more. But they can also be the nicest people on earth (especially the trans). I pity them. But I believe LGBTI can be normal. I can. I always wish Im a boy since Im a little kid. I nearly turned into a lesbian but I choose not to. I pray and fast and keep myself away from other girls. Im cured. Love is not those you saw in movies, love grows, so its your choice if you want to pamper that crush you had into something else. Our body (that includes your feeling and stuff) is under our control. It is our responsibility. So, take control. Stop the madness. Its your right.
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