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(user currently living in LEBANON) posted for lesbian readers on 14/11/2009 tagged with myths , homophobia +24
Once upon a time, I dedided to visit a psychologist, having the feeling I am lesbian but I never admited or at least accept it personally.So here I went expressing my self to my brave psychotherapist, she actually knew I am lesbian,once she told me, I refused the idea becuase of my religion view point.After a while I was struglling with my friend that I fell in love with her. Expressing my feelings to my sister, I came out,here she surprised me by saying I accept you as you are.My sister than gave me a push to admite to my psychologist that yes I believe I am a lesbian. My psychologist immediatly replied by it's NOT a sin,a sickness, or smoething wrong. I began to work on my slef to acccpet the idea, but couldn't solve my religious view point. So here comes my smart psychologist by saying:" I asked an open minded prest and he said it's not a sin." I started anylizing things in my mind, and asking my self is it really not a sin according to my religion?I decided to go to an open minded preset, so i aksed him:"Is homosexuality a sin?" He replied by NO it's NOT.The church used to believe homosexuality is victims, now they think it's normal, but according to the churh the pupose between starights is to produce a baby, so they are still asking themselves what is the purpose between homosexuals? So here I need to find the answer until they find there too.The problem in christins is, people used to say that homosexuality accroding to christianity is a sin, because everything people believe in, they through it into religion and say Christianity say it's a sin eventhough Christianity NEVER said this, but TRADITION say this.Finally, I accept it the idea more, and believed more that yes homosexuality IS NOT A SIN ACCRODING TO CHRISTIANITY. I am very proud to be who I am whether I am a lesbian or whatever I am.
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Anonymous (user currently living in LEBANON) posted for gay lesbian transgender bisexual straight readers on 18/04/2012 tagged with laws and leadership , illegality of female to female relationships +20
Hey, I'm a 15 year old Canadian girl who sadly lives in Lebanon. I'm bisexual and my mother is a homophobe. She doesn't know about me. I'm a lipstick lesbian and I'm pretty good looking :) I wanted to say that its fucked up to be living here in Lebanon because of this law against LGBT thingy, and I don't understand why its would be that hard to change all that?

On the other hand, Its been 2 years already that I'm sure I like girls, and I've made out and kissed girls when drunk :). I've done worse when sober. The day when I realized I was interested in girls..we were at a party and my friend was drunk.. She just came to me sat on my lap and started kissing me. That's when I said to myself.. Damn dude, girls are hot. I was pretty lucky that there weren't any police or shit like that when it happened. But for all the people out there who are scared to approach the same gender.. I don't think its hard.. Even in Lebanon! Just do it in private for god's sake.
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helen posted for lesbian readers on 16/08/2012 tagged with sexual orientation, religion +5
hello, well, i am 20 years old, and i have a perfect life(good parents, good education), but i started to realized the true sexuality of mine, i realized that im into women, well i am a muslim girl, so no one ever knows about that, i mean my sexuality, because as you know islam considers homosexuality a wrong thing!! so i need some help and i want to know if i can contact with any other girl who's having the same trouble i have, and it's better if she's lebanese, thank you
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Abed (user currently living in LEBANON) posted for gay readers on 05/06/2013 tagged with hate crime and violence prevention, religion +5
لم يعد يهمني فإذا الله خلقني كذلك فله حكمته و إذا كان مرضٌ نفسي فإني حاولت كثيراً و لم يتغير شيء فقد تقربت من الرّب و تعلمت ديني و تعرفت على الأشخاص و عززتُ حياتي الإجتماعية و لكن لم يحدث شيء . بدأت بتقبل نفسي و تقبل الأخرين . نعم أنا شابٌ مثليّ جنسياً يختلف ميولي عن الكثيرين . و لكنني إنسان خُلقتُ من طين مثلكم ، و ترعرعتُ بعائلة لبنانية مثلكم ، و لدي أخلاق عالية و محترمة ، و لدي دين أُأمن به ، و لدي وطن أعشقه . و لكن عند معرفتهم الحقيقة ينسون تلك الأشياء ، و يبدأو بالسؤال " آخُلِقت كذلك ؟ أم هو مرض ؟ هل تعلم بأن ذلك حرامٌ أم لا؟ أتعرف أن هذا ينافي عاداتنا و مجتمعنا ؟ " و لا يصمتون و يبدأو بالنصيحة المؤذية و المساعدة الكاذبة ، فهم لا يهتمون إلا بالسمعة و المظاهر ، و يخافون من كلام الناس ، و ينسوا من أنا و يتناسون مشاعري المحطمة و أفكاري المتهدمة . كم أكره ذلك الشعور ! كم أتمنى الإفتخار بميولي الجنسي و لكن سوف يحكم عليّ بالإعدام و سوف أُطرد من البيت و يهجرني الجميع ماعدا بعض الأصدقاء الذين يريدون لي راحة البال . كم أكره أراء الناس عني فلستم من سيحاسبوني بل الله إن أخطأت . فالجميع يسألوني إن كان هناك حبيبة أو عشيقة و ينتظرون ليلة رفافي بعروس من أجمل النساء من أفضل الطباخين و من أذكى العباقرة في التعامل مع الرجال . و إن كان جوابي لا يوجد حبيبة بل حبيب سأرى نيران جهنم في عيونهم و غضب الملأكة بقلوبهم و نعرات الشيطان على أفواههم و يبدأ الصراخ و النهيق . و أن كان في جيوبهم سكين لطعونني به و أن كان في حوزتهم مسدس لداسوا على زنَد الموت و أطلقوا رصاصة نهايتي .
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an arabic girl (user currently living in JORDAN) posted for readers in response to this story on 25/08/2012 +5
sweetie, just live your life and find yourself a partner and hell with traditions that lead you into misery!
Also, islam wouldnt want you to be misarable, and keep in mind this is nt even a "kaba2er"'
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(user currently living in CANADA) posted for lesbian readers on 06/01/2013 +5
Hey, I am a 20 years old lebanese lesbian living in canada. I've tried to date many canadian girls but it never works out, i've always wanted to find a good christian lebanese girl. I only say christian because it will make our relation ship easier cause we would share the same religious traditions and believes.
If anyones interested in gettings to know me, even just as friends, don't hesitate to email me on ca713510@hotmail.com
I look forward to hearing from you :)

If anyone knows of a better way to meet a leb girl, let me know. Thanks
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