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lovewomen (user currently living in GHANA) posted for gay readers on 20/06/2014 +5
you niggas are crazy .. how on earth would you fck or suck a dick if you are a man.. God is watching you.. gay ass nigga .....hehehehehhe
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Foster (user currently living in GHANA) posted for gay readers on 17/03/2014 +5
For me its not been easy for me at all. Although i prefer to live a free life as gay but it is really tough for me here in Ghana. Still have to hide because i am most of the time afraid to reveal my identity.
i am hoping things will get better.
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Khristina Levins (user currently living in UNITED STATES) posted for transgender readers on 20/01/2014 tagged with health, gender identity +5
There is some one in southafrica thats wants marriage from me im trangender and in united state ive been diagnose gender dysfroria and I take hormones can the marriage be more legal in united state or Ghana south Africa
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Eric F B (user currently living in GHANA) posted for gay readers on 28/11/2013 +10
Ya'll people who hate us should stop. Everyone has his right.. Yes so we choose what we want not what Ghana want.. We are tired of being slaves.. Gay forever.
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posted for readers in response to this story on 01/02/2012
Wow. Thank you brother.
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posted for readers in response to this story on 01/02/2012 +5
I am a Ghanaian too but Want to tell you that you are talking crap. You still live in the slavery mentality of siting on peoples human rights. You are the same people that when you child wants to choose a profesion you have to force the kid to choose what you want and not what he , or she like. Grow up. Lesbians , Gays , transes and straights like you choose what they want to live for. Everyone has his or her freedom to be what they want. Think , We dont live in the old mentality anymore grow up.
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(user currently living in SWEDEN) posted for readers on 01/02/2012 +5

This is sad. I see the presidents action as an action of cowardness. I am not a gay , But He is irresponsible person. If he is not siting on their human right , then why doesnt he come out and legalize it ? What a joke of a president.

I am fighting for the rights of Gay , Lesbians , Transe, communities in Africa and many parts of the world as the UN Secretary general said and the Ghana Government is doing nothing about it. I am going on a tour from next month to meet gay groups to fight for this course. People should change their mentality in Africa , and some part of the World and know that peoples human rights should be given to them. I am not a gay , but I think Gays should be allowed to live freely and come out of their panic shells. I feel so disgusted and embarrased that the Ghana government is still living in colonialism. Give them their rights they are all humans like Us. The Ghana Government should bow down his head in shame and be responsible. Even with the plea of the UN Secretary General , he is still acting like a coward. An irresponsible president brings discriminations in his land and tries to sit on peoples happiness and human rights. Before My tour
I am one of the National team players based permanently in Europe. This is a shame to Gays , lesbians and transes .I am stoping profesional fotboll for a Year and then fight for this course. I will be comoming traveling in March and will be hapy meet your communities. Contact me on My mail.
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feny (user currently living in GHANA) posted for bisexual readers on 20/12/2011 +0
anytime you doing something one of the thing you should ask yourself is does GOD approve of it?it a sin against GOD and that what we should be addressing and not rights......fools!what is rights????????????why did GOD give you [pernis and vagina?????why do you think he gave you those organs.the LORD is calling you to come because he loves you
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fofie (user currently living in SWEDEN) posted for gay lesbian readers on 11/12/2011 +5
I believe that, gay lesbian issue in Ghana now is unbelievable, i new of prominent personalities who i can't mention names, enjoy and accept the movement. Ghana is a changed country now. Hop they are get to know what they are really doing.
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steven kasiko (user currently living in NEW ZEALAND) posted for gay lesbian intersex readers on 21/11/2011 tagged with human rights +5
The trend of horrors and events ever unfloding in Africa and Uganda are so scaring and need to be addressed by all civilized human beings. Homosexuals are facing alot of suffering from the government and communities .We should not allow people to be tortured , executed, arrested discriminated or abused becauses of being homosexuals , who they love , how they look and who they are. Ugandans need to know that homosexuals are integral part of our society that should not be discriminated or abused the sooner we accept being a gay is not a crime nor amenace to the society the better. Changing peoples minds and decriminalizing homosexuality is an important step in realising equality for all people . I demand for laws and policies in Uganda that will protect everyone's dignity and i call upon all Ugandans to work for a world where all people can enjoy their rights fully
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steven kasiko (user currently living in NEW ZEALAND) posted for readers on 14/10/2011 +5
Well as i support the UK government for its bold step in cutting Aid to these African Countries that re busy carrying out anti - gay campaign but am scared that as people continue to suffer due to Aid reducation it will make people to become more angry and turn their frustration on homosexuals. So i feel that abetter new approach or strategy be adopted.Let them request for dialogue with LGBT organisations and let UK government not only cut Aid to only Ghana but also Uganda as the same situation and suffering 's being faced by homosexuals in Uganda but these 're being kept secret
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steven kasiko (user currently living in NEW ZEALAND) posted for gay lesbian bisexual intersex readers on 10/09/2011 tagged with hate crime and violence prevention, human rights +10
Despite of us being the minority let us not allow the majority trample on our rights to exist like other African brothers and sisters that are using the excuse of morals like in uganda already there's the the law that criminalize homosexuality now they 're busy coming up with the ANTI GAY BILL this adds poison to an alraedy toxic atmosphere for we homosexuals. The onus is on us to liberate our selfs to fight for our rights to exist like others let everybody come on board now not tomorrow but now
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steven kasiko (user currently living in GHANA) posted for gay lesbian bisexual intersex readers on 09/09/2011 tagged with lgbt families, hate crime and violence prevention, sexual orientation +5
As one of those who have experienced alot of suffering because of being agay its better to grant human rights at everybody not basing on one being a homosexual . Am also disturbed by some people getting concerned about us being gays .I call upon all people in Africa to come out and condemned such people who are encourging African government to imprison pass bad laws against gays like in Ghana, Uganda. with me i can not sleep without knowing what 's happening to the LGBT community in Africa because of the problems that we face kasio steven
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“Today, you would think that because I am an African-American, that I would have awakened with a new zest for living, a belief that all things are possible and a renewed hope in America, the Land of the Free and Home of the Brave. But instead, I felt a chilling numbness emotionally very similar to the kind of feeling that I experience when someone close to me in my family has just died!”

These were the words penned in my book, “Love Won’t Let Me Be Silent,” after Proposition 8 passed in California, amid the euphoria and jubilation of electing America’s first African-American president.

At that time my feelings were very conflicted because there was a part of me that was overjoyed because Barack Obama had been elected. Conversely, another part of me was in complete despair because of the bigotry and hatred that would later take on the form of denying same-gender-loving people the right to adopt children in other states and/or the right to wed the person of their choosing; in addition to the countless suicides, abuse and extreme acts of violence committed against LGBT community – all the direct result from the implementation of this hideous bill!

Prior to the passing of Proposition 8, African-American clergy, Catholics, Evangelicals, Mormons and some non-denominational Christians urged their parishioners to vote “Yes” on Prop. 8, ignoring and completely disregarding the fact that thousands of LGBT people attend their churches and participate in every aspect of ministry, pay their tithes, and have an undying devotion to the ministry. Parishioners were told, “We must do everything we can to preserve the institution of marriage.”

Oh, if they would have only acted earlier with the same fervor years ago, perhaps heterosexual Christians would not lead the country in divorces and separations -- long before Prop. 8, gay marriage, civil unions or domestic partnerships were ever established.

Yes, you heard me right! I was amazed to discover that born-again Christians are more likely than others to experience a divorce. These statistics have been the case for quite some time. Even more disturbing, perhaps is that when these divorcees publicly announce their divorce, many of them are rejected by their community of faith rather than provided with support and healing.

It is apparent that many Christians are quick to criticize gay unions, having forgotten to remove the beam from their own eye before trying to get the speck out of their brother’s eye (Matthew 7:5). And what of the bishops, whose stories garner constant media attention in the Black churches throughout our great country? The same bishops, who bash from the pulpit, are on their third and fourth marriage, cleverly cover up sex and drug scandals, and violently abuse their wives. The media is constantly exposing the fact that more and more of these same bishops are committing adultery and fathering illegitimate children with women in their congregations, other than their spouses. And let's not forget to mention the ones who are on the downlow (meaning they are closeted gays) who cheat with other men!

What is even more alarming is that HIV/AIDS and poverty in the African-American and Hispanic communities is staggering! Furthermore, many, if not most of these same pastors, bishops, priests and ministers who encouraged their parishioners to vote “Yes” on Prop 8, don’t even have a food pantry for their members, senior care programs, effective HIV/AIDS outreach programs and sadly, no prison ministry rehabilitation program; a tragic oversight, especially since there are over 170,000 inmates in the California penal system (many of whom are Black and Hispanic). Yet, they thought nothing of spending over $60 million to oppose same-sex unions, money that they could have and should have used to fund much needed programs like these! Moreover, another glaring example of the Church's misdirected priorities, are the many cases of their parishioners being evicted out of their apartments and homes, unable to procure financial support from their home churches. The same home church that will justify and miraculously produce money to fight marriage-equality issues like Prop 8!

One reason I always cringe when I hear pastors bash the gay community from the pulpit is because little do they realize, had it not been for the gay community, little or nothing would have been done to combat the AIDS virus, and the death toll would have been even more catastrophic. It should also be noted that because the African-American and Hispanic-American heterosexual community is disproportionately affected by the pandemic, subsequently, their faith community offers little to no services.

As a result of working hand-in-hand with many AIDS organizations, I can attest to the fact that thousands of heterosexual males and females frequently access HIV treatment and case management services provided by the gay community -- whom by the way attend these same churches. I am extremely grateful to the gay community for responding so compassionately and effectively to those suffering from the virus because the majority of services and medications that are offered today is the direct result of their resolute response. The LGBT community continues to effectively and compassionately minister to the needs of people from all walks of life; doing what many Evangelical Christians have failed to do, even today!

As a child, I was taught to believe that the Constitution created by our founding fathers would always protect the rights of the people. Even if, humanity somehow lost its way in the muck, mire and rhetoric of misguided souls and redneck politicians, I believed that somehow, truth and justice would prevail and win out in the end because after all, did we not elect an African-American president? Isn’t that proof?

I know that such a belief to some may seem naïve. Still, deep down inside, I keep hearing the chant of our forefathers boldly declaring to my heart and consciousness these empowering words that I refuse to cast aside: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men (and women) are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness . . .”

These words became a reality on June 24, 2011, for the people of New York when their state Senate approved marriage-equality legislation, despite of the disgraceful passing of Proposition 8 in California three years earlier. All the despair I felt back in 2008 when Prop 8 passed was a stark contrast to the immense joy that I experienced on Friday along with the multitudes from every race and gender, who exuberantly celebrated in the streets of New York after such a long awaited victory. But all the euphoria wore off when I awakened the next morning, and was slapped in the face by the reality that I still lived in California. I wiped the sleep out of my eyes, showered, got dressed and boarded a train headed to luncheon that a circle at my church was giving for the fathers and mothers in our congregation.

Even though I have been blessed financially and have garnered international attention and media acclaim as an author, I have chosen not to move out of my present neighborhood. I like the interaction with the people I meet and it keeps me in touch with my community and aware of the things that people living in my neighborhood experience in their day-to-day struggles to survive. It also allows me to experience firsthand what is like to be black, gay and Christian, all of which I am very proud of!

Because I am well known in my community, (though many adamantly disapprove of my sexual orientation and interpretation of Scripture), it affords me the opportunity to dialogue with ministers, local politicians, and with the movers and shakers in my community and I am often able to effect change because I live among them. Admittedly, it isn’t easy and I often become discouraged because of their close-mindedness and deep seated homophobia and think of retreating to a more upscale community where same-gender-loving people are more accepted and celebrated, but I just can’t do it! I can’t do it because of the lingering homophobic plague stalking my community that endangers the lives of children and youth I see going to and fro on a day-to-day basis.

I cannot tell you how many times I have had to intervene to stop fights and bullying on buses and trains (one of the primary reasons I use public transportation). I realize that this is dangerous and often places me in great jeopardy, but I refuse to sit idly by and let another innocent child or young adult be abused by a hateful, ignorant person, simply because they are gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender! The reality is that in these situations, few people are willing to come to the aid of our children, even if they feel the bullying or abuse is wrong or inappropriate and this saddens me – but I refuse to be one of those people!

What is perhaps more devastating about the passing of Prop 8 is not only the negative social effect it has had on our community, but also the devastating financial affect it has also generated because we missed the tremendous window of opportunity for financial gain and the potential to create many much needed new jobs. You see my brothers and sisters, prejudice and intolerance is unfortunately a double edged sword because it tragically eliminated the possibility of California bringing in an estimated $385 million of revenue over a 10-year period, if same-gender-loving people had been allowed to marry. Statistically speaking, married people often accumulate more wealth and have more to spend on property and consumer goods, which bolsters tax revenue.

Thank God that in New York, Gov. Andrew Cuomo had the wisdom and good sense to see the tremendous economic potential and opportunity that his state had to improve its economy. He wisely acted by seizing this opportunity to sign the bill into law only hours after it had been passed. It was a good thing that he did, because wedding plans are likely to generate an estimated $284 million to the state's economy, according to a report by the Independent Democratic Conference.

In the wake of New York’s good fortune, California now teeters on the brink of bankruptcy, unable to balance its budget, barely even able to keep the doors of its schools and higher learning institutions opened, due to mismanagement of funds and overspending, and sadly, because of missed opportunities. Even though Chief U.S. District Judge Vaughn overturned Prop 8, ruling it unconstitutional, the matter is still not resolved because the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals has been sitting on the matter.

In the meantime, California’s economy is in critical condition and on financial life support! Moreover, it is in desperate need of an economic boost. Many single people in the LGBT community are still being unfairly denied the right to marry the person they love and receive their entitled constitutional and federal benefits. Perhaps, the courageous move on the part of New York and Washington, D.C. lawmakers will embolden them and motivate them to do what they already know in their hearts is the right thing to do and overturn Prop 8. Their courageous intervention would rescue our failing economy, which is currently in desire straits and preserve the integrity and promise of our Constitution by courageously granting equal rights to same-gender-loving people – accomplishing the very objective that we elected them to do!

Terry Angel Mason is an author and LGBT civil rights activist from San Diego. His first book, "Love Won't Let Me Be Silent," gained him considerable media attention. He can be reached at angelmasonglobalauthor@gmail.com or online at his website.

SDGLN - http://sdgln.com/commentary/2011/06/28/commentary-time-us-and-marriage-equality

NEWSVINE MSNBC - http://terryangelmason.newsvine.com/_news/2011/06/27/6953848-how-allowing-gays-to-marry-in-california-could-rescue-a-state-teetering-on-the-brink-of-bankruptcy
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