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(user currently living in UNITED KINGDOM) posted for gay lesbian readers on 10/05/2013
The information contained in the world-wide homophobia is wrong. Homosexuality was decriminalised in 1977, along with the rest of Yugoslavia. This is a significant oversight of the author's part and should be fixed.
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From September 2001 to July 2005, I lived in Bosnia Herzegovina (BiH) working for an international organization. I lived in both Sarajevo and Banja Luka. I traveled throughout Bosnia Herzegovina as well as to other parts of the former Yugoslavia -- Croatia, Macedonia, Montenegro, Serbia, and Slovenia.
In Sarajevo I worked with the local LGBT group.
LGBTs in BiH are very closeted because society is very homophobic regardless of religion (atheist, Catholic, Orthodox, Muslim, etc). All of the LGBTs I knew/know in BiH fear that if their family finds out about their sexual orientation/behavior that they will be disowned. Some lesbians are more open than others (gays, bisexuals, transgender).
A male homosexual I know has been repeatedly physically attacked in Banja Luka because he is suspected of being gay. The police will not assist or protect him or punish the perpetrators.
Discrimination against LGBTs is prevalent, widespread, and accepted. Any laws regarding prohibiting discrimination against LGBTs exist only on paper in order to impress the international community, and are not respected or enforced.
I have been told that many (most?) gay men in BiH do not use condoms because they cannot afford to buy condoms.
LGBTs in BiH live a very limited and precarious existence. Given the prevalence of violence and discrimination, LGBTs from BiH should be allowed asylum in other countries. LGBTs cannot live a normal, safe, productive, full life in BiH.
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Steve (user currently living in UNITED KINGDOM) posted for gay readers on 20/12/2010 tagged with tourism +5
My partner and I have been on holiday a number of times to BiH. We have experienced a little hostility at times when it has come to booking a double room, but we have always stuck to our guns.

I have made some very good (gay) friends in BiH. It is a beautiful country to visit, and as long as you aren't too flamboyant, then you should be OK. Be aware though that many people aren't out to their families, so show some discretion
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Jhumar Ray Domingo C. (user currently living in PHILIPPINES) posted for gay bisexual readers on 04/05/2010 tagged with illegality of male to male relationships +5
Greetings from Philippines!
I am Ray 19 years old.I am currently in relation with a Serbian guy,it is so hard for him to get me out of Philippines because of his job,and also his friends doesnt know that he is gay.For now he is not stable yet with his life..i can say its really hard to have a long distance relationship,sometimes while talking online we used to cry,he wanted to get me as soon as possible but unlucky for us because of his situation right now.I registered to some modeling agencies in EU hoping that it could help me closer to my love,but unfortunately no luck again..for my curiosity i search for some NGO for Gay organization in Serbia asking if they could help me be closer to my boyfriend but non of them answers me.But i never lose hope and still finding someone or a group that could help me.
I am hoping that whoever read my story here with a golden heart can help me..

I am just a young boy who loves deeply..

For those who wants to give some advice for my wisdom feel free to send me a message:
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